Free-day Friday

Yehey! Everything's been turning out well for me lately. Things at work have been going smoothly too. I'm already done with my deliverables this month so ilang araw nako pumapasok sa work na walang masyadong ginagawa. I love it!!! I'm on leave na today since quota nako. Yay!

I just want to stay home the whole day, scrub the floor, wash my dishes and eat.eat.eat!!! I went home early two day ago and ndi pako makatulog agad so what I did was, I cleaned the floor in my living room. Scrubbed it with soap then finished off by rinsing with water and bleach. It was a great work out! Pagod na pagod ako after. Ndi ko actually alam kung napagod ako sa paglinis or sa pag-inhale ng bleach and cleaning detergent. Haha! I really love living alone because it gives me the freedom to do anything I want. So later Ill do a bit of cleaning again and maybe do some gastronomic wonders in the kitchen.

And then Ill just catch up on my reading and vegetate all day long! Yay I love days like this! Thank you Lord for leaves and restdays! :)

I wish everyone a fab and stress-free weekend ahead!

Smoochies,

Khaye

Always Let Your Sun Shine!

I have a lot of girlfriends – half of whom are now married, while the other half of us singletons are either single by choice, in a relationship, suffering in a bad relationship (LOL) or single by circumstance/s (awwwww).

 

I belong to the last category, single by circumstance, in other words “Walang magkagusto”. Madame kasing may ayaw ng maganda pero pangit ang ugali, LOL. Bwahahahahaha.

 

So anyway, I have this friend who recently entered into a relationship. She was always my wing girl. We’d go to night-outs together, have midnight snacks together or sometimes we’d just have coffee and people-watch (boy-watch) together. I love hanging out with her because I see myself in her – vivacious, independent, chatty and broad-minded.

 

She lives her life the way she wants to live it, uncaring of what other people might think or say. I met up with her last week because I wanted her to fill me in on the juicy details of her new lovelife. I noticed something different when I saw her – she was not dolled up and she looked gloomy. She was far from her usual demeanor, highly unlikely for someone who’s just recently snatched a hot beau.

 

She confided that her new boyfriend just wants her to look low-key.  Gone were the cute get-ups, her hair was just tied in a boring bun and she looked uptight. It was like I am in the presence of a stranger. I do not know if I should be happy for her.

 

Honestly, I loathe people who lose their own personalities when they get into a relationship.  It’s like they live their life according to their partner’s approval. I used to be one of them that’s why I feel strongly about it, hehe. (May pinanggagalingan, LOL!) And it’s one of my worst decisions, ever.

 

Women (and men too) shouldn’t lose their light when they start a new relationship. They shouldn’t lose their own person. If a man is looking for you to mute your music, then he's not the man for you. Please don’t do a disservice to yourself by molding yourself into a totally different person just to please your partner. He must love you for who and what you are – tutu skirt and all.

 

There’s a big difference between changing for the better and changing just to be accepted.

 

 

The Unpure One,

 

-=K=-

 

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Wet Wednesday

It's a cold and rainy week. It's a good time to snuggle and cuddle. But for single folks like me, a sip of hot coffee and mushroom soup will do. :)

Ang sarap matulog, grabe! Ang hirap bumangon para pumasok sa office, hehe. I hope it's still bedweather all week because I'm on leave this Friday and I intend to just stay in bed the whole day.

Stay safe and dry people!

The Unpure One,

Khaye

Beer + Ledge + Pantyliner DO NOT MIX!

If you remember my post last weekend - click here, I told you that I went out with my friends and officemates right? Here are other photos from the party.

 

DISCLAIMER : I don't know these people. They were random girls in the bar who joined the Booty-shakin contest last Saturday. Hehe.

Enjoy the pics!

MORAL LESSON :

1. Drink moderately.

2. Don't wear white pantyliner when you're wearing a black lacey see-thru. (May black pantyliner po sa supermarket. Kthanksbye)

3. Drink Moderately.

4. Drink Moderately.

5. Drink Moderately.

6. Need I say more?

The Unpure One,

-=K=-

Where can I buy this?

If you know where, please let me know. =)

The Unpure One,

-=K=-

Happy?

Last weekend, a friend asked me a question that caught me off-guard. The question's fairly simple but sometimes it's really the simplest of questions that are the hardest to answer.

"Are you happy?"

His question made me do a re-evaluation of my life. And my honest answer to him was "I am not super duper happy, but I am also not sad. I am right there in the middle. I still have alot of unrealized dreams, but I believe I will achieve them one by one. Maybe happy's not the right term. Steady lang ako. Steady, that's what I am."

I am excited for changes that will happen in my life in the next few months. Finally, I will be able to tick off one major item off of my bucket list. Hehehe. I used to be afraid of growing old. But as I grow older, I realize that I feel more empowered, more self-sufficient and more cognizant of the things that truly matter. I am not super duper happy nor am I sad. But I feel good where I am. And I guess, that's what matters, at least for now.



The Unpure One,


-=K=-

Weekend Tales: Yakimix and Xcess!

I went out with my officemates and friends last Saturday. We decided to have dinner in Yakimix to check out what everyone's raving about. What I mostly had were fish and shrimps while my officemates favored the more sinful pork and beef.

Major lamon talaga ginawa ko that's why I don't have decent pics during dinner. It's either nakanganga or andameng food sa mouth. LOL! Napagod ako kaka-grill, seriously. Hehe. Binayaran mo na nga, pinagluto ka pa! It doesn't sit well with me.

After a very hearty dinner, we decided to go to Xcess to dance all the calories away! Hehehe. It being a Saturday night, the bar was packed! Ang init at ang daming mga bagets. Ugh.

I think I drank one beer too many because I had a very serious head-ache the morning after and my legs were pretty sore from too much dancing. Sign of aging!!!!!!!!

But all in all, I had a lot of fun because I get to spend time with my friends.

How'd your weekend go?



The Unpure One,

-=K=-

What do you do when....

... you feel like your hormones are on overdrive and you can't do anything about it because you are at work?

I hate this feeling because I cannot concentrate on what I am doing. My mind is drifting. Far awayyyyy. In a place where the bed is soft, the aircon's humming quietly, the pillows are immaculately white and the pancit is ooohhh so delioso. HAHAHAHA.

So what did I do about it?

I haven't smoked for so long pero napayosi ako kanina while I was in the office. LOL! I felt like I need some kind of release so I just puffed all of it away.

And now I feel 'normal' again. Whew!

Weekend na namannnnnn! :-) Will go out with friends tonight! Let's all have a lovely Saturday ahead!


The Unpure One,

-=K=-

Great day!

I slept early last night. 8pm pa lang tulog nako. Sarapppppppp matulog! And then I woke up around 1am because I had a very weird wet dream. Someone was ..... on me daw. But when I woke up, wala naman. Boooo!!! So I just went back to sleep while singing "All By Myself". Hahaha.

And then my alarm went off around 5am. I showered, ate light breakfast and then dressed up for work. I'm wearing my new top today. I feel really good. Maybe because I slept early last night, or maybe because I had a very vivid dream (LOL), or maybe because I'm wearing new clothes.

Ah basta, I feel that something good will happen to me today. *wink*

O sya, it's almost 6AM. Gotta run! I don't want to get stuck in traffic in Edsa!

Have a great Tuesday everyone!


The Unpure One,


-=K=-

Blessed

I have been sporting this happy glow lately. There’s this HUGE baggage that I finally let go and I have never felt so peaceful.  I sleep better.  I smile more.  I am more appreciative of things around me – big and small.  Blessings keep on coming, I feel so un-worthy but at the same time I feel really grateful.

Thank you Lord for everything. =) You rock!

Wishing everyone a wonderful week ahead!!!!

The Unpure One,

-=K=-

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Weekend Tales

I woke up at 6:30AM today. I don't normally wake up this early on weekends, especially if I don't have a hosting raket. But my friend called me up because he wanted to hear mass. Because I'm pious and religious (hahaha), I went with him to church.

I don't really go to church EVERY Sunday. I actually don't like going to mass, period. Hehehe. I am not the devil reincarnate it's just that I feel like I don't need to listen to a priest's sermon in order to develop a close relationship with Big J. I don't need a middle man. When I feel like praying, I go to the adoration chapel.

There's this adoration chapel that I frequent when I feel lonely. I just sit there and pray and talk to Him and to my late grandmother. I have been and will always be a lola's girl. Everytime I feel troubled about something, I ask for her help. I feel like she's still watching over me, praying for me, rooting for me.

So anyway, back to my story. After mass, we went to Starbucks to have breakfast. I like lazy, steady mornings like this.

I'm like the Tazmanian devil most of the time - whirling through responsibilities with work and school and life  so sometimes I find happiness in just being idle. I've just been sitting here for the past hour, people-watching. Nakakarelax sya pramis. :) Everyone should take time out once in awhile to just relax and do nothing.

Niloloko ko ng friend ko, para daw Pajama yung top ko! Hmp. =/ Ndi naman diba? Hehehe. We're still thinking where to have lunch.

Have a great Sunday everyone!!!! :) Mwah.


The Unpure One,


-=K=-

Of Blacks and Self-Timers...

I don't shop often. But when I do, I usually buy clothes in vibrant shades. The colorful, the better.  Sometimes I think I look like a walking crayola, hahaha! Colors make me happy. My clothes are a reflection of who I am - playful, moody, full of life.  When I feel down, I wear my red pumps and I splash the reddest shade of red on my lips. It's my usual pick-me-up.  When I feel girly, I wear pink.  When I am feeling cheerful, I wear yellow pants. Hehe!

I was rummaging through my cabinet (closet pag mayaman, pag mahirap cabinet ang tawag, haha!)  today because I was looking for an old dress I havent worn for quite sometime and I noticed that there have been a few pieces of clothing that I havent taken much attention. Maybe because I just don't feel like wearing them at the time I bought them. Or maybe because they were in black. Period.

I tried them on to see if I'd feel any different. And you know what, I feel like black's my long-lost pal! It's like black and I have met somewhere before and we have recently been re-acquainted. Hehe. I still feel like I'm the vibrant, cheerful me. But with a little more pizzazz and sophistication. (Sophistication daw oh! LOL)

At dahil dyan, ilalabas ko na lahat ng mga black kong damet at sila ay gagawen kong pambahay. LOL! My tastes in everything evolve through time. My taste in style, in men (insert BIG question mark), in major life-decisions have developed as I grew older. Have they become better? Or have they become worse? Hahaha, that's the big question.

 How about you, what's your favorite color?


The Unpure One,


-=K=-