Friday, September 3, 2010

10 Signs He's Inlove

You've dated your fair share of women and have always enjoyed keeping your options open, but lately there's this one woman that has you wondering if she's " the one." In order to help you figure this out, I have compiled the following list of the top 10 ways to know you're in love.
10. You've forgotten your ex

More often than not, a breakup is followed by a significant amount of time spent thinking about your ex and wondering whether or not you made the right decision in going your separate ways. Depending on how long the two of you were together, these doubts can resurface again and again.

Ever since you met this new one, however, the thought of getting back together with your ex is the furthest thing from your mind. Come to think of it, you barely recall what you found so great about your ex in the first place.

9. You can't stop thinking about her.

You think about her all the time. You even go as far as reading her tweets and blogs everyday eventhough you are almost always together. It's just that you don't want to miss what her thoughts and feelings for the day are. 

But it gets worse. You're out in the mall and you see something in a shop window and think about how much she would like that particular item, or you notice a poster for a show that she would love, but normally wouldn't even have looked twice at it.

If she's the last thing on your mind before you go to sleep and the first thing on your mind when you wake up — and you've even dreamed of her on a couple of occasions — then you don't really even need to read on to know if you're in love (but should anyway, just to be sure).

8. You (truly) care about her.

There is a reason why you don't really want to know too much about the chick you had a one-night stand with: You don't love her. When you're in love with a woman, you want to know all about her: who she is, what she thinks, what makes her laugh. You truly care about her and her feelings.

If you truly love a woman, you feel bad if she had a bad day or is upset about something. You don't try to cheer her up because you have to, but because you can't help it.

7. You find her quirks charming.

She laughs all the time - even for no reason at all! LOL! She sings herself silly, she shouts when she wants to and you don't get weirded out by these. In fact, you find these things cute and charming.

You like how she calls you by your complete name. You like how her eyes twinkle and how she gives off that silly grin when she thinks of something naughty.

She does and says things that make her different, and you like it. You can't quite put your finger on why, but it doesn't even matter. You like her just the way she is.

6. You have great chemistry.

You can't be in love with someone that you have no chemistry with. If you seem to always be on the same wavelength, and think in similar ways, that's a great sign. If you also generate enough heat to set off a five-alarm fire bell, then she is probably someone that you could fall in love with, if you aren't there already.

5. You don't notice other women as much.

Did you see that gorgeous blonde that just walked by? What do you mean, "no"?!?

Although you can't help noticing a beautiful woman when one walks by, when you're in love, some of them tend to slip under the radar, while others just pale in comparison to her. Furthermore, you don't seem to be flirting half as much as you used to.

You are slowly realizing that she's often the only woman in the room that matters, and for some reason that suits you just fine.

4. You love spending time with her

If you could only see and visit her everyday, you would. You don't mind braving the traffic in the south just to go all the way to her house up north. You sometimes leave the office early just so you can spend a couple of hours with her. It doesnt matter if you don't do anything spectacular. Just being in the same room with her, seeing her laugh, making her happy is enough to make your day.
Furthermore, when you're not together, you miss her and wish you were spending time together.

3. You don't mind compromising sometimes.

There was a time when it was your way or the highway, but with her it's different. Not that she asks you to, but you don't mind missing a day out in the firing range just to be with her. And you find yourself trying to incorporate her into your plans or altering them to accommodate her.

You also find yourself not putting up a fight when she wants to watch a Tagalog film. A TAGALOG FILM! F@ck! Haha!

2. Other priorities take a back seat.

Your ever-important "to do" list seems quite stagnant these days, as being with her always manages to render your other plans and obligations obsolete. What was it that you absolutely had to do by two o'clock again?

1. You start thinking about the future and she's in it.

It used to be that the future with a woman meant your date on Saturday night, but with this woman, the future seems infinite. Not only do you plan to see her this weekend, but you want to see her a year from now as well.

When planning your next vacation, you know you want to spend it with her, and not a random beach bunny you happen to meet while you're there. And eventhough Christmas is still a couple of months away, you are absolutely sure you want to spend it with her.
-= She's the one =-

If you are currently dating a woman that makes you act in any of the ways mentioned above, then you, my unpure friend, are seriously falling for her. It's time to put away your little black book, focus on her and enjoy all the wonderful moments ahead!

Love, Love, Love! Life is Beautifullllll! :) Hahahaha! Sorry for giving you too much cheese on a weekend. Ganun talaga e. Can't help it! LOL!

The Unpure One na parang Nagdadalaga,


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Micamics said...

I wonder who is the lucky guy kaye.. hmmm.. OMG! Do i know this person? LOL
"You sometimes leave the office early just so you can spend a couple of hours with her. It doesnt matter if you don't do anything spectacular. Just being in the same room with her, seeing her laugh, making her happy is enough to make your day."

Nimmy said...

inlababo!!!! eeeeeeeeeeeeee!

-=K=- said...

Mica - Nope. Hehe :) He's wonderful. Kumbaga sa food, isa syang wagyu steak! Exquisitely divine! LOL.

-=K=- said...

Nimmy - syempre. Ang lagay kayo lang lage ni Leo! Hehehe! :) Spread the loveeee!

-=K=- said...

Nimmy - syempre. Ang lagay kayo lang lage ni Leo! Hehehe! :) Spread the loveeee!

Anonymous said...

Hmm, in love na talaga tong isang to. Can't be helped. Lol!

But do be warned. There are scum like me who take advantage of these kinda writings to formulate a "general plan" on how to hit it with a chick.

I'd hate to be the moodbreaker on this one but I just had to say the warning. Hehehe.


-=K=- said...

Nozzie - you sound like an overprotective kuya! Cute! Hehe! Don't worry, I'm in safe hands. LOL.

Ako si Yow said...

In lababo ka ate? Naks. Maganda yan. Haha. Spread the love. Humayo kayo at magparami. I mean, magmahalan. Perstaym ko dito. :) Papansin lang po. :)

-=K=- said...

Yow - wow, the famous Yow! LOL! Hahaha! Maraming salamat :)

Anonymous said...

Well, I am an overprotective kuya. LMAO!

But I never had a biological sister. hehehe.

Too bad you're the "Sister Image" right now. Lol!

I know I could be a pain but I'll hold back. . . a little. :D

Don Dee said...

Wow. She's really in wuv! Hahahaha... thats WUV, as in the retarded kind of love which is the best kind. You know what I mean? You nakaka-tanga klaseng love. Hahahaha...

-=K=- said...

Nozzie - Hahahaha! Cute!

Double D - ofcors! Don't we all turn like 'tards when we're in wuv??!? Haha!

A big Mwah to you both! :)

Anonymous said...

Savor the cuteness while it lasts. I'm more on the scary side up close. Hehehe.

Wait, wag ka naman ganyan. Baka binabasa na to ni Romeo. Baka habulin kami ni Maester Dondz ng taga. Wahehehe.

-=K=- said...

Wala kameng pa-cute stage, excuse me! :) Ndi na kame bata. Everything's spontaneous and real, thats why it feels so much better. And yes, he reads my blog everyday. Even the comments. Haha! Dont worry wala yung hawak na taga. Baril ang hawak nun. Hehehe. Kidding.

Anonymous said...

I meant "My" cuteness. Savor it while you still think I'm cute. Wahahaha!

Hmm, Baril... Anybody has a kevlar jacket? Pahiram. Pati na rin Kevlar pants... Pati na rin kaya full face kevlar mask tsaka bullet proof fiberglass shades. hehehe.

O kaya magtatago na lang ako sa likod ni Maester Dondz. Wahaha.

Don Dee said...

Naknampucha, bakit ako na naman? Let me share a trick Noz, you can say anything you want but soften the blow by just qualifying that with "in a good way." Remember, I called your joke corny -- but in a good way? Hahaha... Kidding... Pwede kaya itong, kapag ang statement mo na eh, "ANG SUPER DEFENSIVE MO NAMAN!!!! <-- but in a good way?" Lol. Whaddaya think Khaye?

gesmunds said...

wow,, love is in this spot! share naman jan! haha!

im glad that you are inlavavu! :))